[...] to eat the things WE like more often. [...]
that's a tough life - doesn't your wife fix dinner???
Few things I enjoy more than having a nice beverage while cooking something on the Big Green Egg. I don't drink often, but for some reason the two go together. My wife say's it has made me the Big Green Drunk.
She cooks - I clean up, it works for us, though I am a very good cook ( I think)