Thank you all for your kind sentiments, the pain is easing a little now. She seems to have a problem with the simple things in life eg. Husband, screw on milk bottle tops, Bra straps, washing up, scrubbing the floor,cutting the grass, carrying the food shopping bags etc. How the hell she is going to cope with my sister, her daughter and her daughter in a couple of weeks time from Oz, I have no idea. As for me well I am going to move into my Garage workshop for a month, just can't get the staff these days can you. LOL Iggy. PS. only joking but thanks again.