Cherie, God never gives us more than we can handle. He pushes it sometimes, but know that things will get better when you least expect it. I am sorry for your troubles and will say a prayer for you. I hope your cat gets better. My dogs are like my children, too. You're fixin to be a Grandma!!! That's a blessing in itself! Whether you are there or not, Grandma-hood is forever. Take a deep breath, say a prayer, prioritize and move on. God gives you two hands and 24 hours a day. Do what you can with them and let the rest go. Many Blessings.
Julie