Jim,
I have had the same problem with the BLO 50/50 mix. I have noticed that when I use real wood pine, poplar, walnut etc, No problem. It usually drys in a day or less. Have even done two coats in one day. However when I have used plywood - oak plywood 3/16 inch up to 1/2 ply the BLO mix takes forever to dry and cure. Just my personal observation, but I no longer use the mix on ply wood. I switched to a shellac-denatured alcohol mix at 50/50, followed by a couple of coats of clear lacquer. I am happy with the results. Humidity will affect the drying time of the BLO mix also.