Sheila- I feel for you. Truly. My motorcycle wreck was 4 years ago now. Shattered right knee cap, 3 bones in left foot, broken nose and thumb. Then it was followed by a MRSA infection picked up in the hospital and surgery on the knee. The most painful part was giving up riding, but it was a necessary choice I made for my loved ones. She will get through it, and so will you. You are both in my thoughts.