I am sorry you have had your share of mishaps. I hope your daughter feels better and things turn out ok for you. If you had purchased any patterns from me, please email me at sheilalandrydesigns@gmail.com and I will gladly replace them. I keep pretty good records for years back so you can always come back to have me resend files - even if it has been years since you ordered.
Life has a way of doing things like that sometimes. I find that for me anyway, it goes in waves. In ways I try to think of it as 'getting it all over at once' . Maybe that is just a label I give it to get through those times.
In any case, I wish you the best. I hope things level out for you soon on a good note. ((HUGS))) Sheila