Hi Marg. I'm sorry to hear what your going tru, and like any parent we worry so much about or kids. I just have 1 and I'd prob. have been in a grave by now if I had more, cause this day in time.
I dont understand why any divorce have to get nasty, and maybe thats me. My ex. and me are best of friends. We was together for 15 years, but things happen, and if you would have asked me back in 1989 if I thought if I would be divorced I would have told ya your nuts.
I just hope things calm down for ya and you go on your vacation, and be at peace. You and your Daughter remember this my Grandfather always told me. *bad times dont last forever*. We go try so many times in our lives,to change things, sometimes it all works out, sometimes it dont.
As my friend who killed himself on Newyears it still hants me and it's been going on 6 months tomorrow, me,,myself wonder, where I went wrong there and what could I have done to make things where he would still be with me today. In a way it's like you,, you wonder how we can make things better. All we can do is pray,, and what another person does, we worry, but sometimes things are outta our hand.
I wish I could give you more words of comfort, and I'm sorry that you have to go tru all this. Divorce is never end of the world. It's sad, and hurts but as always tomorrow the sun comes up, and another day. Peace and love to you all....
