Ok Boys, lets see if I can explain this to you...............while all men are created equal, not all men use what they have been given in a positive way. Some men have their brains in their butt, others use their strength to crush beer cans or some other stupid thing. A lot of men just don't get *it*........................so we women being the superior species has to decide which short coming we are willing to put up with and also some men are more trainable then others.........it starts will their mothers teaching them the basics and then we ladies take it from there. Now are there any other questions we can answer for you?